Stuart Showalter
Child custody decisions are not about the law, but are judgments based upon parenting skills and behaviours. Get on the path to making yours optimal - now!
My Blog postings
Since 2008 I have been periodically writing about issues related to child custody and the various integrated aspects of life. On this page I have provided links to some of the most relevant postings divided into subject groups. 12/12
Child Custody
Motion to Restrict, Terminate or have Supervised Parenting Time - Indiana Code 31-17-4-1(a)
Does your social media footprint damage your child custody case?
Spurious claims, accepting responsibility, and high conflict child custody cases
The nexus between your child custody order and a 24-Hour allergy relief drug
Properly Packing your Parachute - Effectively Proceeding through a Child Custody Case
Modifying your child custody and support in this new year; or Why a parent may tell you to &%$# off
Indiana Court of Appeal Reverses Shared Parenting Order Today
The forthcoming ramifications of Artificial Humans and Child Custody decisions
Inducing action to improve Child Custody outcomes by identifying a need
Is custody of children generally taken away or relinquished?
Enforcement of Indiana Parenting Time Orders - What do you need?
Indiana Father gets full custody plus 100% of Parenting Time then COMPLAINS about it
If this offends you then your child custody case may have a problem
Contempt of Court Jail Sentence when Child Refuses Parenting Time Upheld - Indiana Court of Appeals
The reasons that men, especially fathers vying for child custody, should be supporting feminism
Parenting Time Exchange Protocol - Indiana Parents, Practitioners and Judges
The Maternal Preference in Child Custody Cases: Harm to Women and Children
Assessing Parents, Assessing Each Other and Evolving Perceptions in a High Conflict Custody Battle
Child Support
Extensive litigation as a factor in reducing Indiana Child Support Payment obligation
Indiana Court of Appeals vacates child support order based upon imputed income
The costs of a Child Custody Battle and Appealing an Indiana Child Support Contempt Finding
Prohibition on Negotiating Parenting Time and Child Support
Interesting Ruminations
Love, Marriage and Successful Relationships
The soft insult and reducing marital or relationship conflict
Every Experience is a Positive Step
Girls are Defeating Women in Business, Politics and Law
Tis the Season to Obscure Truth and Harm Your Relationships
The Irony in an Unintentional Result of Selfishness
Is School Graduation an Accomplishment worthy of Celebration?
Elements of a strong marriage - Arguing
Another insult to females cloaked in praise
Asking if God exists is the wrong question
Are you hearing what is being said?
Overfilled oil in Indiana, Missouri Band Competition, and the Best Interest of the Child Standard
Natural, Man-made and Free thought
Domestic Violence
Domestic Violence, the efficacy of Protective Orders and obtaining justice for victims
A Fit Parent is One Who Beats Her Child - Indiana Supreme Court Justice Steve David
28 Year Protective Order Term Vacated by Indiana Court of Appeals on Rehearing
Societal Acceptance of Domestic Violence Against the Most Vulnerable
Why Judicial Officers must Understand the Elements of Child Abuse
Courts, Lawyers & Judges
SARS CoV-2 / Covid-19 Quarantine Efficacy and Civil Rights
Indianapolis GAL and Perjurer Del Anderson fired by Child Advocates, Inc.
The Importance of Timing and Preserving Issues for Appeal
Contempt of Court Jail Sentence when Child Refuses Parenting Time Upheld - Indiana Court of Appeals
How to win an Appeal of an Indiana Child Custody or Parenting Time Order
Indiana Appellate Attorney [Russell B. Cate] Incompetence can Ruin your Child Custody Case
Courts rules are set-up to impede the truth
Winning a Child Custody and Support Appeal Requires a Proper Trial Court Foundation
The Importance of Timing and Preserving Issues for Appeal
Is the relationship with your child worth following the Indiana Rules of Appellate Procedure?
Health & Well-Being
Coronaviruses, SARS CoV-2, CoViD 19, and a Social Responsibility
Wearing surgical mask for SARS CoV-2 / COVID 19; Ignorance, Stupidity and Effective Protection
The Effective Weight Loss Diet
Calculating your risk of death from the SARS CoV-2 virus
Choosing an Attorney for your best Medical Advice
Most disease may be communicable and affecting your well-being
Is your health care plan keeping you healthy or just costing money
Are you defeating your own cause or promoting illness over wellness?
Trust to be trusting and improve your well-being
You may do whatever you want to your body - a valid proof against moral proscriptions
Experiences without attachment is living
25 Years ago today Judge Sarah Evans Barker sentenced me to Life
A Healthy perspective on Health Care
The Health Care System that we all want
Doing What's Right When You are Under Attack
Obesity as a Factor in Indiana Child Custody Decisions
Logic & Thinking
Wearing surgical mask for SARS CoV-2 / COVID 19; Ignorance, Stupidity and Effective Protection
Examining your automatic thoughts: The barricade to rational thinking and wellness
Turning Negatives Into Positives Through Cognitive Modification
Achieving Willpower and changing your Child Custody arrangement
Reducing conflict, dissonance, and hypocrisy among your thoughts and actions
Each Day I Die - Finding Wellness in Child Custody Conflict
Electric Cars, Child Sexual Abuse, and the Absence of Logic
Coal Powered Cars: A child custody litigation analogy
Making a logical argument in a child custody proceeding
Parenting Skills
Instilling respect in your child and effective discipline
Responsible Parenting, Child Custody Disputes, and Parenting Awareness Month
A cognitive schema for seeing what is before your eyes
Remarriage, step-parents, and the best interest of the child
Why some Parents Should be Non Custodial Parents
Understanding when a child tells you that you are doing wrong by alienating the other parent - Parental Alienation
Why some Non Custodial Parents should be and how not to get help changing that
Driving Children To School, Teaching Risk Aversion - Another harm to Children
Teaching your Children about Santa Claus, or; Why it's best to Beat your Child with a Stick
The World’s Worst Parent - Becoming a Better Parent
Most Parents Encourage Sexual Abuse of Their Children